The outcomes of eldercare decisions have far reaching impacts even to those who aren’t directly involved in eldercare. The quality of care to the elderly can be greatly diminished by having a poor outcome. Family members who provide some sort of assistance to their aging parents can be greatly impacted by the results of decisions. But even broader than the individuals involved are the communities and society at large.
A positive experience of eldercare will also have a benefit to those involved. In the same respect a less than ideal poorly thought out eldercare solution will produce no benefit aside from that of experience. The elderly will experience the effect of care decisions first and with the most impact. They will experience the frustration. The lack of dignity. The stifled independence. And the myriad of outcomes that come from their decisions.
Family members of ill elderly provide a great deal of support to their loved ones. Some help with the financial aspect. Others provide direct care. While still others assist in choosing care providers and ensuring their loved one receive excellent care. They are the second hardest hit group to feel the consequences of eldercare solutions. They may experience the hurt of seeing their loved one wither away when they could be thriving. The disappointment of failed promises. The financial burden of having to seek out other options.
Communities and society as a whole are also impacted by the increasing need for eldercare services. Due to the supply and demand of healthcare needs and the growing segment of the aging population society bears a great deal of impact. The escalating cost of healthcare coupled with the increasing number of those elderly citizens receiving government healthcare assistance forces the need for taxpayers to fund these programs. It is those within society who must pay this cost.
Imagine how choosing a less than ideal situation will affect the cost. Now in order to fix the problem more money must be spent. This further drives up the cost of care that taxpayers, whether or not they care for an aging parent, must pay for. You will be affected by eldercare.
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Feelings of stress. Watching one’s money disappear. Feeling at rope’s end. Constantly tired. Not being able focus on anything in one particular area life any more. Feelings of battling uphill but never gaining a toehold. Frustration is now your second nature. Nothing is working out the way you envisioned it when you made the decision to provide care to your elderly parent. If this is all too familiar to you, rest assured that you are not alone. This is a very common sentiment among those baby boomers who are managing careers, families, and assuming responsibility for providing some aspect of care for their elderly parents. But it can all be avoided simply by educating yourself in eldercare. Continue reading to see how not investing a small amount of time now educating yourself will inevitably lead you to bankruptcy. Read More…
Many adult children of the elderly never seek out care solutions for lack of a basic understanding of eldercare matters. Some assume that their aging parent must be to the point of no return in the progression of some horribly debilitating disease. But the reality of this form of care is that it is available in many shapes, sizes, and functions across a broad spectrum. With care ranging from care for the newly diagnosed to those at the end of their life. Unfortunately, the outcomes of care for aging loved ones is poor because of this lack of understanding. To get the best care for your aging loved ones Read More…
Inability to care for an aging parent at home rarely crosses the mind of family caregivers. They expect that their loved one will become fragile, but they also envision their strength compensating for the difference. Disappointment happens when caregivers run head on with signs that their loved one may need a nursing home.
As disease symptoms progress among the elderly, the amount of thime, energy, and money needed to care for them also increases. Whenever those basic resources cannot be met by the caregiver, a nursing home may be the next viable option.
That fragility that was mentioned previously is real And that same fragility can often times require more than one person to care for an individual. Whenever needs cannot be met by a family caregiver due to the fragility of diseases, a nursing home may be a wise option.
Sometimes an elderly loved one will personally feel like a burden. If they cannot be convinced otherwise, different options need to be explored and presented to them. A loved one that truly wants to go to a nursing facility instead of relying on family needs to be able to have that option.
These are just a few guidelines for why an elderly parent may need a nursing home. Each circumstance, including your situation, is different. Please leave a comment below and share your thoughts about nursing homes and why someone you know may need one.
Stress as a caregiver, while being quite common, is equally preventable. Just by understanding the progression of illness and having consideration for your loved one, you can prevent the majority of the stress involved.
Caregiver stress has deep roots in uncertainty. When caregivers assume responsibility of a loved one’s care without clear direction, they frequently experience horrible stress.
To overcome this stress it’s best to set clear goals for a loved one’s care. In order to set goals, you must understand the basics of your loved one’s condition. Talk to your parent’s physician and seek to understand the present condition and its long-term effects.
Also you must understand your loved one’s expectations and goals. You may expect them to be able to walk unassisted. But they may have a goal of being proficient with a walker. If you attempt to force them to your way, they’ll resist. When they resist, you experience a greater level of frustration.
Set realistic goals for your loved one. Do this by understanding their diagnoses and asking them about their goals. This will lower your stress and help your caregiving experience to be a pleasant one.
Caregiver strain is a common occurrence of those attempting to solely shoulder all responsibility of their loved one’s care. Don’t forget that nursing homes may be another option for your aging loved one in the future. There are multiple benefits to you with more time and energy just being the tip of the iceberg.
Caregiving is a full time job. Just look at nursing homes and hospitals. They are staffed 24 hours a day. The responsibility is spread abroad among different healthcare workers. That’s why nurses and doctors seem to be able to bear the load better than solo family caregivers. It’s simply because they get to leave at the end of their shift. But for a family caregiver there is no shift. It’s a nonstop job.
Your time is valuable and it shouldn’t be filled only with the stresses of being a caregiver. There should be some time for living and enjoying life.
If you don’t enjoy life, you’ll wind up without energy. Without energy, you won’t be a very effective caregiver. That causes its own stress. Your energy could be better conserved by allowing others to help you with caregiving responsibilities.
Nursing homes don’t strike most as a desirable alternative to being an at home caregiver. But when you don’t have any time or energy, it will be good to understand alternatives.
Choosing a nursing home for a loved one is a very daunting task. It happens at time marked by high
emotions and lots of stress. Don’t go it alone. There are resources to help you choose. Friends,
geriatric care managers, and even the medicare website can be used to help choose the best nursing
home for your loved one.
Word of mouth advertising can really define how well a business functions. And that’s no different for
nursing homes. Their continued success is dependent upon how their community views them. So
you, as a family member, need to ask around. Talk to your friends about any experiences they may
have had. Or ask if they know of anyone who has had experiences with nursing homes in your area.
Geriatric care managers are another great resource. These folks live and work in the community.
Better still is the fact that they generally work specifically with nursing homes in the area. So they have
first hand knowledge of local nursing homes. Go ahead and call one and pick their brain.
Medicare has a nursing home compare website. It breaks down each nursing home and makes a
comparison of them. They compare these homes to the rules that govern nursing homes and how
well these nursing homes do in accordance with those rules. Using the website you can compare
every nursing home within in your area.
Don’t be discouraged during this tumultuous time. There are multiple resources available to you so
you don’t have to fly solo if you don’t want. Refer to these three resources and you’ll be much farther
ahead than those who let their loved ones wind up anywhere.
Caring for a loved one is costly. This is especially true when your’re talking about having your loved one cared for in a nursing home. Thankfully the total expense of a nursing home doesn’t always have to be strictly out-of-pocket. There are certain programs other than private insurance to help fund this type of caregiving. Two of these programs are medicare and medicaid.
Private health insurance is a great place to start. Private insurance policies like long term care insurance may pay a very significant amount of a nursing home stay. Every policy is differnt so you’ll have to take a look at your parent’s policy. It would be nice if every policy paid out the same percentage, but it’s just not possible due to the varying aspects of differing policies.
Medicare is a type of insurance funded by the federal government. Much against popular belief, medicare doesn’t pay 100% of a nursing home stay . Medicare actually pays a sort of pro-rated amount depending on the length of nursing home stay. Medicare’s eligibility requirements are based upon age and not finances. Don’t fret, though, that medicare doesn’t pay the total cost.
Medicaid is a state government run type of insurance whose eligibility requirements are based on finances. If your loved one doesn’t have a huge net worth, they may qualify for medicaid. Medicaid may actually pay the difference that medicare will not.
Don’t worry that nursing home care is expensive. If your loved one needs the care, there are multiple resources available for you to choose. Call your state Department of Health and Senior Services and ask what resources are available to you and your loved one.
Independence with mobility is a very important aspect of life among aging seniors. Immobility due to things like wheelchairs can pose a problem to family caregivers. A couple of ways that you can make your home more wheelchair accessible include installing widened doorways and ramps.
Stairs pose a special problem to those in wheelchairs. They imprison seniors to only certain areas of the home. Besides that, stairs outside a house make leaving a chore simply because of the dread felt about having to get back into the house upon returning hom. Ramps, instead of stairs, are an excellent way to allow seniors to get around more.
Another antagonist to wheelchairs is the doorway. Standard doorways are not wide enough for all wheelchairs. Having someone install wider doorways in your home is just another way of promoting senior mobility.
Just imagine being a senior in a wheelchair. You see your family in the kitchen preparing a meal. Eveyone’s joking and laughing. You really want to be a part of that. As you get to the doorway, your wheelchair gets stuck. Instead of being jovial you get to sit solitary. That is a very sad moment.
If you’re caring for your loved one or considering doing so, have a contractor or CAPS professional of some sort evaluate your house. Have them assess for areas of inaccessibility. Then you’ll be promoting independence and mobility with your aging loved one.
Injury prevention and accessibility are two of the most common reasons that family caregivers choose to remodel their homes after assuming the responsibility of caring for an aging loved one. The ability for loved ones to remain independent is a primary concern among caregivers. This is just another reason that some families opt for a remodel.
Injuries are all too common among the senior population. They can take place as falls, burns, etc. So many caregivers try to alleviate this risk by remodeling the common sites of injuries- bahrooms and kitchens.
Accessibility can be fairly limited for seniors at times. Some houses may have bedrooms on the second level making stair climbing quite a burden for some seniors. This may make getting into a bedroom impossible for those in wheelchairs. Speaking of doorways; standard doorways are not always wide enough to accomodate wheelchairs.
The ability for seniors to remain independent is synonymous with injury prevention and accesssibility. If the goal of caring for an aging loved one at home is to help them remain as independent as possible for as long as possible, then you must make your house accomodate these situations.
So look around your house and look for areas that may be slip and trip hazards such as thresholds. Look for areas that may be limiting for seniors to get to. And scope out areas that may limit a senior’s ability to be independent. This will help you decide whether or not you need to remodel to welcome caring for your aging loved one.